What is a perfect relationship?
Experts all
over the world have conducted studies as to what constitutes a perfect
relationship? Is it just plain love? Probably not
An ideal relationship
Even though
all couples are different, Science has predicted these 11 traits that are
needed to make a relationship successful. Have a look.
Less fights
Successful
couples don't fight that much after a certain point of time - they used to do
it at one point and a lot of it, but they don't do that any more.
Household chores
If both
partners contribute equally to the household chores , the marriage is bound to
be successful.
Sexually active
Successful
partners are not only compatible emotionally, but physically compatible too -
sex is an important part of a marriage and partners who are sexually active
tend to be happier.
Sleep
it out
As strange as it may sound, a
successful relationship is one where both partners take proper rest - this
leads to proper understanding between them.
Laugh it loud
Laughter is
genuinely the best medicine - couples who laugh together have successful
relationships.
Drinking out
Couples who
are in love tend to drink alcohol almost in the same quantity - they both know
when to stop and how to take care of each other.
Motivate each other
They
motivate each other and are happy in each other's achievements. They bring out
the best in each other.
No common friends
As much as
couples need to have "common" friends, it is also important to have
your own circle - it gives successful partners the much needed space.
Finances
A recent
study conducted that couples who spend money in the exact same way have more
successful marriages.
They are alike
Yes,
opposites attract but alike people tend to have happier marriages according to
a study. This will close doors to insecurities and tribulations.
First and last born
It is also
said that if one partner is a first born (oldest) while the other is the last
born (youngest), the relationship will be more successful. Apart from the above
mentioned, these traits (though not scientifically proven) too are important.
Respect
Even though
you might have your disagreements, respect is very important in a relationship.
Financial security
The couple
needs to be financially secure (even though not extravagant) to have a
successful relationship.
Common goals
Do you want
children while your partner does not? While couples might have different
ambitions, it is important to have a common goal.
Understanding
Couples need
to have a common understanding in order to develop a common, healthy
relationship.
Family similarity
Even though
each family is different, couples need to have bit of a familiar background in
order to be successful as one big family.
A clean past
We are not
saying that no one should have a past, but it is important to come clean on it
before you start a relationship. It will give you a closure.
Food choices
Yes, a bit
of common food choices do make a difference - a couple that bonds over food is
definitely more happy.
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